The power of L.O.V.E(18th of October, 2013)

Great parenting there

• 'don't stress out too much, we are always here for you'
• 'I will be living up to 130 years old so I can still see you live up to 100 years old'
• 'You should talk to your fattie more whenever he calls, you won't have that much chances to talk to him as he grows older and older'
• 'I don't know when I will be gone, but when that day comes, don't cry too much even though I know you would as we have a really close daughter-mother-bonding. When I am gone, you must live even happier than before, for yourself, also for me.'
• 'Cherish everything you've got here. Although you don't have everything you want but you have your parents who love you the most'
• 'I can't imagine what if you are a boy, will we still be this close?'
• 'I can only give good advice or put you on the right path, but decision making is in your own hands'
• 'Trust nobody but yourself, because anyone may hurt you when there is a conflict of interest'
• They have said all that, and there are much more but these are the ones come up in my mind so far

We talk about different things during dinner every night, and my fattie rings me up at least once a week. Communication is not a problem between my parents and I compare to other kids in this era. We treat each other like brothers and sisters. I would say they are one of the greatest gifts for me, their unconditional love has lasted for 21 years by now and I believe this will continue til they can't. Sometimes I even feel that my mum loves me like her lover, she hugs me to sleep, holds my hand to sleep even when we are out. 

When I ever reached that shell of adolescence, the rebellion caused me to resist anyone to understand me, and I still do. That hidden self is trying to guard that softie within me so I have once pushed them away, now I realize I should be holding them tight in the time being...To parents, their love is far more than I ever loved them, so in the recognition that I fathom the depth of their love, it's the peak of everything and hence, I have always triumph over any difficulties out there...